Last week, we experienced one of the inevitable side effects of taking our son to daycare– his first cold. This wasn’t too terrible, honestly, as he only had one day where he seemed really unhappy, and everyone says it’s better for him to get the germs now and build immunity, rather than be exposed to everything at once in Kindergarten. I am lucky enough that my work allows me to take sick time to care for my sick child, so the one day I had to keep him out of daycare, it was okay. It was actually not bad at all, because he slept pretty much all day– just what his little body needed to fight those germs, I’m sure– so I got to have a semi-relaxing/productive day at home. I could have even worked from home, but I didn’t clear that ahead of time, so I didn’t. I’m sure we are in for worse sick-baby days in the (probably near) future, but I felt pretty confident with how we weathered that first little storm. I was kind of worried about the first cold and how tough it would be; turns out I didn’t need to be so worried about (at least) the first cold.
What I should have been worried about was the first time I got sick with a young baby! Two nights ago, my throat began to feel sore. Later that night, the body aches started… pretty soon, the dreaded influenza was full on, complete with fever, chills, and headache. (Luckily I was spared any gastrointestinal discomfort.) But what the crap? Didn’t I get a shot to prevent this?? It’s been awhile since I had the flu, and I’d forgotten how much it can suck. And of course, the baby, who normally is a pretty good sleeper, woke up at 3am alllll sweaty, so I had to change all his clothes, which woke him up thoroughly and made it harder to get him to go back to sleep. Rocking him, trying to get him to sleep without getting him sick(er), was agony. I felt like hell. So I called in sick to work.
I don’t know if I got sick from my son or if I got something else entirely (the symptoms seem to be different), but I hope I got it from him, because I really don’t want to give him what I have! I also don’t know if you’re supposed to bring a kid to daycare if he’s potentially been exposed to the flu from a sick parent… but I didn’t really have any choice yesterday. My body and head hurt so badly that it was all I could do to get him dressed and drop him off at daycare (dad had to work at 6:30 and our daycare doesn’t open until 9, so I had to be the one to do it). I contemplated stopping for a coffee on the way home from the drop off and decided not to– and those of you know know me well know that almost nothing can keep me from my coffee! I drove home, kept the dogs confined, ate half a banana, and went up to bed. I slept until about noon when I got up to feed the dogs, eat something, and pump, then I went back to bed until almost 3. Still felt like crap all evening and went to bed early.
When I woke up at 3 to feed the baby, I felt maybe not quite as bad as the night before. Still, I decided to stay home from work again, seeing as the flu is generally contagious for the first 48 hours, and I figured I could use some more rest.
Today was a little different from yesterday. I got the baby ready for daycare, dropped him off, and then… I got coffee! A better start already. At that point, though, I should have gone home to rest and recuperate. But no, I didn’t. Here’s what I did:
-Made a “quick” Target stop to pick up paper towels, take advantage of a good sale on diapers and formula (for supplementing), and pick up some prescriptions.
-Ended up taking a lot longer than I thought, because I realized we needed some clothes for our family photo shoot on Saturday, so I purchased a couple of shirts, then I picked out a swimsuit suitable for my post-pregnancy body, and picked out Father’s Day cards for all fathers involved.
-Got home just in time to meet the guys who came to tune up the furnace and air (even though they were supposed to come between 4 and 6)
-Fed the dogs and let them out
-Wrote Father’s Day card for my dad
-Let the dogs in
-Washed baby feeding implements
-Let the dogs out
-Watched 1/2 hour of TV while doing Target survey in hopes of winning a $25 gift card (I didn’t)
-Let the dogs in
-Tried to take nap, couldn’t sleep
-Let the dogs out
-Put blankets in laundry
-Gathered paper and plastic bags to recycle
-When the spouse got home with baby in tow, loaded up baby and went to Menard’s to pick up a new filter for the furnace
-Went back to Target to recycle plastic bags and pick up a couple things I forgot
-Put dinner in oven (okay, it was a frozen meal from Let’s Dish– thanks, Mom and Dad!)
-Fed dogs and let them out
-Put cloth diapers in wash
-Nursed baby again
-Put baby to bed
-Chased down dog who had escaped from the yard
-Turned mattress and hanged sheets on bed
-Washed non-dishwasher-safe dishes
-Washed baby feeding implements again
-Checked to make sure baby was still sleeping (he wasn’t)
-Nursed baby again and put him back to bed (which took like half an hour)
So…. yeah. So that happened. 😀
My throat is still sore, but tomorrow I better go to work. I’ll get more rest there.